Dual-Password Sign-Off Governance Active
No problem, commitment, agreement, plan, close-out, or reward becomes permanent without both Jordan & Kelly signing with their passwords. Bonus points require the other partner's password.
All 5 Seed Items Merged + 10-Domain Accountability & Diagnostic Engine
Your 5 active framework items (acknowledging feelings before defending, daily non-sexual connection bid, clothes/drawer accountability, in-person difficult talks, and zero physical escalation) are now integrated alongside the 10-domain standards, daily checklists, weekly review scorecard, and automated issue-to-action suggestions.
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Combined Jordan & Kelly domain health
Partner Operating Profiles & Love Language Calibration
Documented behavioral baselines used by the Diagnostic & Accountability Engine
Core Needs: Absolute prioritization, direct truth, tangible follow-through, active partnership.
Stress Trigger: Unannounced withdrawal, stonewalling, or repeated unkept operational promises.
Core Needs: Emotional safety, gentle tone, non-pressured affection, patience during overwhelm.
Stress Trigger: Rapid-fire interrogation when flooded, feeling cornered without a pause window.
10-Domain Alignment Radar
Jordan vs. Kelly current ratings across all 10 domains
Active Commitments & Negotiated Promises
Active Core Issues & Assigned Improvements
10 Core Relationship Domains: Expectations, Boundaries & Respect Standards
Explicit operating standards, non-negotiable boundaries, partner needs, and daily commitments for every domain.
Commitments, Promises, Explanations & Negotiated Agreements Ledger
Includes your 5 Shared Relationship Framework seed items plus structured follow-through steps, deadlines, status switcher (Open, In Progress, Done, Missed, Dropped), and pre-agreed rewards/consequences.
Core Issues Tracker & Automated Diagnostic Suggestion Engine
Identifies recurring friction patterns, analyzes the underlying dynamic between Jordan and Kelly, recommends concrete corrective protocols, and assigns them directly to the responsible party's commitment ledger.
Daily Accountability Checklists & Operational Schedule
Daily non-negotiable habits across Communication, Acts of Service, Bids for Connection, Logistics, and Needs. Checking an item awards +1 White Spark Chip.
Jay's Daily Commitments
Tangible reliability, gentle tone & in-person patience
Kay's Daily Commitments
Acknowledge feelings first, daily non-sexual bid & service
Daily & Weekly Sync Schedule
Protected relationship operating windows
Structured Weekly Calibration & 10-Domain Scorecard
Ego-free Sunday review: score each domain (1–10), recognize kept commitments, and review open items
Logged Weekly Calibration History
Milestone Roadmap (0–60d • 60–180d • 6–12m)
Synchronized with your shared Keep goal horizons
Pre-Agreed Rewards, Consequences & Heart & Hustle Chip Economy
Positive reinforcement for kept promises and structured, non-punitive repair consequences for missed commitments. Non-negotiable rule: Chips never buy consent or override personal boundaries.
Ways to Earn Rewards & Chip Bounties
Custom ways to earn chips. Adding a new way to earn requires both partners' passwords; awarding chips to a partner requires the other partner's password sign-off.
Pre-Agreed Rewards for Follow-Through (Redemption Menu)
Requires both partners' password sign-off to add a permanent reward
Pre-Agreed Consequences for Missed Commitments
Accountability tiers designed to restore trust and operational momentum without ego
Recent Reward & Consequence Ledger Log
Engineered Master Execution Prompt & Verification Review
Complete specification synthesized from your Shared Relationship Framework HTML, Notion link, and Workspace records
ROLE & DOMAIN: Principal Systems Architect & Behavioral Relationship Operations Engineer specializing in Gottman conflict regulation, behavioral token economies (Heart & Hustle), and mobile-first accountability dashboards.
SEED RECORDS INTEGRATED VERBATIM: (1) Acknowledge feelings before defending (Owner: Kelly, Due: 2026-11-21); (2) One non-sexual bid for connection daily (Owner: Kelly, Due: 2026-11-21); (3) Return or account for clothes / drawer items (Owner: Kelly, Due: 2026-11-16); (4) Difficult conversations in person when possible (Owner: Both, Due: 2026-11-16); (5) No physical escalation — cigarette incident during community service (Owner: Kelly, Zero tolerance, Consequence: Immediate pause on shared logistics).
CORE SUB-SYSTEMS: (A) Mobile-first 4-stat summary bar & Floating Quick-Add (`+`) button; (B) 10 Core Domains Standards & Radar Alignment; (C) Full Commitments, Promises & Negotiations Ledger with inline status dropdown (`Open`, `In Progress`, `Completed`, `Missed`, `Dropped`); (D) Core Issues Diagnostic & Auto-Suggestion Engine; (E) Daily Checklists, Weekly Review & 0–60d / 60–180d / 6–12m Milestones; (F) Two-way `rel_framework_v1` LocalStorage compatibility + Notion Markdown/CSV Export.